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AUBURN, Ala. -- Rashaan Evans (Auburn, Ala./Auburn) is known for his infectious personality. He’s typically the life of the party and has a smile that can light up a room. But on Sunday, when the ESPN 300 linebacker sat down at his home for what he said would be his final interview before announcing his college decision Wednesday on signing day, it was clear the recruiting process had taken its toll.
It was evident in his mannerisms. It was evident in the way he answered questions. It was evident in the tension that filled the Evans household. It wasn’t intentional, but the signs of stress were there.
“Sometimes it feels like it’s getting worse every day,” Evans said.
Five minutes into the interview, his mother tried to cut it short. She wasn’t trying to be rude; she had simply had enough. She said she wanted to spend time together as a family. It was something they hadn’t been able to do for what seemed like an eternity, and Sunday just happened to be her birthday.
“It’s been pretty hectic,” Evans said. “I really haven’t had just a good week to myself, with me and my family, where we don’t have people calling us or coming to see us or having to go on visits or anything.”
Saturday night was a prime example, as not even his grandfather’s birthday party proved to be off-limits.
Evans and his family attended the party for his grandfather 24 hours earlier at a nearby hotel. It seemed like a perfect opportunity to get away from the world of recruiting for at least one night. But Auburn coach Gus Malzahn and Alabama defensive coordinator Kirby Smart found themselves on the guest list, and a handful of coaches from each school showed up as well. All were hoping to make one final good impression on the four-star prospect, one of a dwindling number of uncommitted prospects remaining in the ESPN 300.
“The fact that they came all to one place, it was pretty interesting,” Evans said. “But I don’t think it was a bad deal. The party was really about my granddad, and they just tagged along. That’s all it was. That’s the type of atmosphere it was. It wasn’t a competition.”
It was a competition, though. The coaches might have acted civil during the party -- the two sides even talked to each other when they first arrived -- but it’s all part of the ongoing competition to land Evans’ signature on signing day.
It started more than a year ago when Alabama and Auburn first offered Evans a scholarship. The Tigers came first in May 2012; the Tide followed suit five months later. It escalated when Evans started to shine at events such as the regional Nike Football Training Camp and The Opening, and it continued with strong performances at the Alabama-Mississippi All-Star Game and last month’s Under Armour All-America Game.
Now, just before he makes his final decision, the competition has reached a fever pitch, and all Evans wants to do is escape it. It’s time for him to be selfish.
Local fans who say "War Eagle" when he goes out in public don’t matter anymore. Alabama fans tweeting him “Roll Tide” don’t matter either. Even though his friend and former teammate Reuben Foster has helped with the recruiting process, it no longer matters what he says. Even his mom and dad, who both went to Auburn, are telling Evans to make the best decision for him, not for other people.
“I just try to get him to understand that his main concern should be himself,” said his father, Alan Evans. “He should not be worrying about the pressures of going to school because I went there. He should be worried about his own career and where he wants to go with it.”
It’s not an easy decision for 18-year-old kid, but it’s one Evans has to make.
At one point, between talking about his grandfather’s party and one of the visits he took, a smile appeared on Evans’ face. He was reminiscing about the process, and as stressful as it got at times and as much of a toll as it took on his family, he knows it was a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity.
“Sometimes whenever I’m stressed about it, I always click over to another mode and just try to enjoy it,” Evans said. “I know these are precious times in my life. ... I try to look at it as a way to make memories.”
In the hours leading up to signing day, Evans plans to sit down with his family and look at what each school has to offer. He’s done with interviews. He’s done talking to coaches. He’s done with every part of the process that isn’t about making an actual decision.
He has one more memory to make on Wednesday, and he wants to make sure it’s one he won’t regret.